PRAYER TO MY EX-FATHER: & OTHER NOTES FROM A LIFE YOU MISSED
1.
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Here’s to you, and trying to forget
My father, who art in nowhere.
Your face, barely seen, burns in memory,
Damned be your name.
My father who art in nowhere,
Would you know your children’s faces?
Damned be their names.
Yours was mine, but erased from me.
Do you know your children’s faces?
Have they been hidden from your kingdom?
You were mine, and erased yourself-
May your hell be as it is in my earth.
I try to hide you as I forge my kingdom,
But daily your ghost creeps back to me.
May your hell be as it is in my nightmares,
Your ghouls the faces of your forgotten children.
Your ghost creeps back to me,
And I cannot forgive your trespasses.
The faces of your forgotten children,
I imagine them happy in your absence.
I cannot forgive your trespasses, oh father.
Abandonment is an ever-weeping wound.
I imagine myself happy in your absence,
And in moments of temptation, I let myself.
Abandonment is an ever-creeping wound,
Climbing spine and occasionally finding brain.
In moments of temptation I let myself
Be delivered from your evil.
Here’s to you, and trying to forget
Your face, barely seen- burns in memory.
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2.
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He left the curtain closed again,
You can feel your bloodstream churn
Crashing red-caps of pulse beat beneath fingers.
Breathe slowly, in and out with the metronome of dogs barking
A symphony from the shared wall. Tap your fingers to their music;
If you can hear them, someone would hear you. Surely, hopefully.
You keep a knife in every room, just in case, and you white knuckle fingers
Around it as you attack the curtain, finding it concealing nothing but bottles.
You are no less calm knowing that you must climb in and conceal yourself.
Shave your legs and keep your back against the wall. Feel the solid grout with your fingers.
Wash your hair with eyes open through burning water, closed they are a swirling horor.
Keep the water running while you slide open the curtain, keep the surprise on your side.
Hastily dry yourself with fumbling fingers, nearly call 911 at the shower stop dropping.
Pull your shirt over your head and expect to see a mad man on the other side. Crazed, like you.
Dad’s childhood pranks have nothing on this ruthless anxiety instilled by years of harmless ‘fun.’
The bedroom door closes in a trap; but the stairs are still a murder race, don’t look behind you.
Double check that the doors are still locked. Locking you in. Locking in the lurking, too.
Rush to a seat with your back firmly against a wall, feeling its solid comfort with your fingers.
Now wait. Exercise your wildest tortures, knife still close by, still waiting.
Envision the doorknob turning, strange fingers curling around the closet
Door that would block you in. Plan an escape route for each new thought.
Drink your coffee with not-yet-caffeinated jitter fingers.
Try to read a whole sentence without looking up.
Check the time. Almost there.
Finally, the first fingers
Of dawn slip through
The window cracks
And, finally,
Its all
Over.
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3.
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There’s a man living above my shower.
More like a goblin, really.
He’s harmless,
thus far,
Though he peers through cracks
Onto my nakedness.
The vent is dusty and spotted
With mold never cleaned.
He sits inside the vent,
His eyes bulging through spaces
In his head,
Like two blood
Oranges with slits--
Pulpy and dripping
Where there should be whites.
His blackened fingers,
Miniature and curled
With yellowing talons,
Splitting and peeling,
They wrap themselves around
The molded metal, leering
For a better look.
While I rinse and repeat
I wonder
How and what he eats, if he does.
He’s never been spotted
Outside of his vent.
He must creep out in the night
To feed
On skin cells and loose hairs
Left about the drain.
Maybe he eats the small roaches
Who crop up in the bottom of the bath,
Or maybe, he breeds them..
That seems like a gremlin thing to do.
My showers are always safe, save
The peering and sneering
And the clacking of claws.
But in the closed eyes
Under the shower stream,
I wonder
If he climbs down from his vent,
His skin scarred and bubbling
With boils ready to burst,
Patches sloughing off mid-molt,
Carefully careening into the tub
With a swiftness unexpected for
A small thing so round.
Sure to keep his long hooks
From making startling noise,
Does he enter the space with me?
Those fingertips could surely pierce
My naked flesh and leave the tub
Running red.
For now, though, I’ll shower
With gremlin attending,
For my exterminator
Doesn’t believe in gremlins.
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4.
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Staring through yourself
Into the mirror, you wonder -
What atrocious act you've committed
To deserve this young, but sagging body;
This too-round face and dirty
Brown eyes glaring back
In hollow ambiguity.
Your hip bones are indiscernible,
Your belly quivers in a bread dough
Jiggle of overindulgence and hidden shame.
Your man hands reach backside, once thought sexy,
Now understood as imperfect and oblong.
But her, wow. Just look. She's radiant;
Her smile a washing warmth,
Her swagger a soft swishy sashay.
Her breasts, perfectly capped with cold
and bobbing unencumbered.
Her backside a mesmerizing pendulum.
As she walks, she casts a numbness over
Senses and eye-movement. You are caught
In her gaze, her ass, her sensual sway.
You think of her in the mirror,
Hands careening over those worshipped bits.
She is a goddess of confidence, clueless.
But, she is you, is she not?
Little do you know her obsessions
Over cheek dimples and roll overs.
When she sits she fidgets with shirt lengths
And riding shorts, worries about thigh
Dimples And perky-enough-breasts.
She sweats internally from her too-fucking-early
Sexualized childhood, which convinces her
That life is some sort of overdrawn porn;
That she must be sexy, and it's her only
Redeeming quality- her ability to harden
Certain male appendages.
But if you only knew that each Earthbound goddess
That struts past you spends hours in scrutiny
Strutting past demon mirrors of her own.
And that you're all god loved goddesses,
If you could only see your pillows of flesh as
Intentionally placed comfort for men and babes alike,
And find comfort in your own unique humanity-
That which makes you you.
If you could only see how others see you
In your laughter and untamed silliness.
You would know that to someone,
You are the confident goddess who rules the world.